I just got back from a temple stay at the Lotus Lantern Buddhist Temple in Incheon. I went with 2 of my friends Shannon and Laura. None of us knew very much about Buddhism, so it was very interesting to see how the monks live first hand. I still don’t think I understand very many details about the origins of the religion or the specific reasons why they do things, but I’ve learned some of the general things.
I choose this temple for 2 reason, 1.) they had english translation people there 2.) it was close to seoul. It is actually on a island in the West Sea, but it’s only about 45 minutes from Seoul. I was really surprised that almost all of the monks spoke fairly decent English. It also really surprised me how international they were. There was 1 monk from Korea, 2 from Russia, 2 from Bangladesh, and 1 from China/Thailand.
There were only 4 foreigners there, so we really felt like we were part of their little community for the weekend.

On the first day, we basically just hung out for a while drinking tea and talking to the volunteer translator lady. Then she showed us how to behave during the ceremonies. She also taught us how to do the full prostrations (which we would come to hate the next morning). After that we got a meditation lesson from a monk. I thought the most interesting thing that he said was that people have a “monkey mind”. Our minds are always jumping around from thought to thought, and it’s really hard to catch them and calm them. Basically meditation is clearing your mind of everything, and trying to think of absolutely nothing. (Much harder than it sounds!) After these lessons we ate dinner with the monks, which was veggies and rice (what we expected).
But after dinner we got an unexpected surprise of getting to have a cake/tea party with the monks. One of the younger monks had just completed his 4 years of study and was became a full fledged monk, so we got to join in the party to celebrate the milestone with them. They were actually a lot more talkative and friendly than I thought they would be.
The nect day it sort of turned into a kind of “Buddhism Fat Camp”. We had to wake up at 3:30am, so we could join in on the morning ceremony. It was really beautiful seeing the temple in the pitch black sky glowing a pinkish color from the light of hundred of lotus laterns. The ceremony started with some chanting, then came the tough part. We had to do 108 full prostrations. (Which means that everytime a monk said a chant we had to 1st bow, 2nd kneel, 3rd get into a crawling position, 4th curl up in a ball with our foreheads/elbows/knees on the ground, 5th reverse all of that to a standing position. The trick was you can’t move your feet at all and you can’t use your hands for balance or to push you off the floor.) We all thought our knees, thighs, and calf were going to give out on us! My legs haven’t hurt that much since I climbed the Great Wall of China!
After the morning ceremony we had some breakfast (more rice and veggies) and then we went on a hour long walk in the woods. Now I know why monks are so skinny!
The rest of the day we basically hung out and relaxed.

It was a very cool and memorable weekend!